Summary
How to properly clean sex toys is the one adulting skill that actually pays off in the bedroom. While a scrub-down might be the last thing on your mind after a great session, skipping the soap is a fast track to unwanted bacteria and infections. This guide makes it easy to keep your gear fresh by covering the basics of washing medical grade silicone and glass, along with the special care needed for soft strokers and porous materials. You will learn why you should never drown a motor in the sink and why letting your silicone toys touch in storage is a recipe for a sticky disaster. Keep your favorites in rotation longer and your body happy by following these simple steps for a safer post-glow cleanup.

Whether you just bought your first vibrator or you have a drawer full of strokers, dildos, and butt plugs, knowing how to properly clean sex toys is essential. This guide covers everything from quick post-play routines to deep cleaning methods, so you can keep your toys safe, hygienic, and ready for next time.
The Fastest Way to Clean Your Sex Toys After Use
Let’s get right to it. Cleaning sex toys after every session is pretty straightforward and takes just a few minutes. Here is what to do immediately after play:
- Rinse the toy under lukewarm warm water to remove bodily fluids
- Wash with mild soap or a dedicated sex toy cleaner
- Rinse again thoroughly to remove all soap residue
- Pat dry with a clean towel or lint-free cloth
- Let the toy air dry completely before storing
This routine applies to vibrators, dildos, strokers, masturbators, butt plugs, and any other toys for penises or vulvas. Do it every single time, whether you are using toys solo or with a partner.
Important for motorized toys: If your vibrator or stroker has a motor, never soak it unless the packaging says it is fully waterproof. Instead, focus on careful wiping around buttons, charging ports, and seams with a damp cloth.
Why Cleaning Sex Toys Matters for Your Body
Sex toys touch some of the most sensitive parts of your body. They come into contact with mucus membranes, semen, vaginal fluids, anal bacteria, and lubricant, especially when paired with water-based personal lubricant. When you skip cleaning, these fluids become a breeding ground for bacteria.
Unclean sex toys can lead to:
- Urinary tract infections from bacterial transfer
- Yeast and fungal infections thriving in moist residues
- Bacterial vaginosis from disrupted vaginal flora
- Skin irritation and contact dermatitis
- Sexually transmitted infections when sharing toys between partners
There is a key difference between surface cleaning and sanitizing sex toys. Surface cleaning with soap removes visible debris and most bacteria, which is fine for solo use. Disinfecting (boiling, bleach treatment) becomes necessary when sharing toys, switching from anal to vaginal play, or after use with multiple partners.
Both vibrators and strokers need the same level of care. This is not just about “female” toys. Any toy that touches your body deserves proper hygiene.

Get to Know Your Toy
Before you clean your sex toys, check the packaging or product page for the material. This determines what cleaning methods are safe.
Non porous material options (easiest to clean):
- Medical grade silicone
- Stainless steel
- Borosilicate glass toys
- ABS hard plastic
- Acrylic
A nonporous toy does not absorb fluids or harbor bacteria in tiny pores. These materials can handle deep cleaning methods like boiling when unpowered.
Porous materials (require extra care):
- TPE and TPR (common in strokers and masturbators)
- Jelly rubber
- PVC
- Cyberskin and other materials marketed as “real feel”
- Fabric straps and leather harnesses
Porous toys absorb fluids and bacteria, making them impossible to fully sanitize. They need more frequent cleaning and should be covered with a condom when sharing. Porous sex toys also need replacement more often.
Always follow the manufacturer’s instructions. Pink Pussycat prioritizes body safe, non porous options in our catalog to make cleaning easier.
How to Clean Different Types of Sex Toys
Cleaning depends on both material and design. A waterproof silicone vibrator needs different care than a soft TPE stroker with a hard case. Below are specific steps for the most sex toys you will encounter.
Remember: motors and charging ports should never be submerged unless the toy is rated fully waterproof, not just water resistant or splashproof.
Cleaning Vibrators, Bullets, and Rabbit Toys
Clitoral vibrators, bullet vibes, rabbits, suction toys, and wand massagers are some of the most popular toys for vulvas. Here is how to clean toys with motors:
- Power off and unplug the charger
- Remove batteries if the toy is not splashproof
- Wipe down with warm water and mild unscented soap using your hand or a soft cloth
- Use a soft toothbrush for textured areas, rabbit ears, and suction openings
- Pat dry with paper towels or a clean lint free cloth
- Let the toy air dry fully before storing in a fabric pouch
Waterproof vs splashproof: Waterproof toys can be rinsed under running water. If your vibrator is not splashproof rated for full submersion, stick to wiping with a damp cloth only.
Cleaning Dildos and Non Vibrating Insertable Toys
Silicone toys, glass toys, stainless steel plugs, and simple anal beads without motors are the easiest to clean.
Basic wash:
- Use warm water plus mild soap or dedicated toy wash
- Work from base toward tip to avoid splashing back onto yourself
- Rinse thoroughly
When boiling is safe: Boiling water works for 100 percent silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass toys with no mechanical parts, glued suction cups, or decorative coatings.
Boiling instructions:
- Place the toy in a pot of water
- Bring to a gentle simmer (not a hard rolling boil)
- Let it simmer for about 3 minutes
- Remove with tongs and place on a clean towel to cool and air dry
Never boil plastic, acrylic, jelly rubber, or toys with glitter or decorative finishes. Always clean the base and flared area thoroughly for anal safe toys.
Cleaning Anal Toys (Plugs, Beads, Prostate Massagers)
Anal toys need extra attention because of bacteria like E. coli and the risk of transferring germs to the vagina or urethra.
Surface cleaning steps:
- Wash with soap and warm water
- Clean the neck and base of butt plug designs carefully
- Get between beads on anal bead toys
Non powered silicone, glass, or steel anal toys can be boiled for 3 minutes for a deep clean after anal use.
The golden rule: Never go from anus to vagina or penis without either a fresh condom on the toy or a full wash in between. Using condoms on porous anal toys or when sharing makes cleaning safer.
Anal toys with motors must not be submerged unless certified waterproof. Use careful wiping and a sex toy cleaner instead.

Cleaning Strokers, Masturbators, and Penis Toys
Soft TPE strokers, fleshlight style masturbators, and textured penis sleeves are popular among many sex toys owners. These porous materials need specific care.
For stroker sleeves with a case:
- Twist open and remove the sleeve
- Rinse the case with soap and water
- Flush the sleeve inside and out with lukewarm water (never very hot or cold water to avoid warping)
- Use a toy cleaner designed for TPE or TPR instead of harsh antibacterial soap
- Shake off excess water
- Let the sleeve air dry completely upright or on a clean towel
Once the sleeve is completely dry, apply a renewal powder made for masturbators to keep the material soft and non sticky.
Cleaning Cock Rings, Harnesses, and Accessories
Small accessories like silicone cock rings, vibrating rings, harnesses, and fabric straps need regular care too.
- Pure silicone rings without motors can be washed like silicone dildos and even boiled
- For vibrating cock rings: remove the bullet if possible, clean the bullet with a damp cloth only, and wash the silicone loop with soap and water
- Leather or fabric harnesses should be wiped with a lightly soapy damp cloth but never soaked
- Dry removable O rings and metal parts completely to prevent rust
- Replace anything fraying, showing visible cracks, or breaking down
Step by Step: Deep Cleaning and Disinfecting When You Need It
Deep cleaning is useful after anal use, after switching partners, or before and after group play. The three main home methods are boiling, diluted bleach solution, and dishwasher sanitize cycle.
Deep cleaning works only for non porous, unpowered toys like silicone dildos, glass plugs, and stainless steel wands. Do not deep clean porous or motorized toys this way.
Boiling Non Powered Toys Safely
Only toys made of 100 percent silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass without motors or glued parts can be boiled.
- Pre clean with soap and water
- Place in a pot with enough water to cover the toy
- Add a clean washcloth if boiling glass toys to prevent banging against the pot
- Bring to a simmer for about 3 minutes
- Remove with tongs and place on a towel to cool
Avoid thermal shock by not running a boiling hot toy under cold water immediately.
Using a Diluted Bleach Solution
Bleach treatment is a backup method for fully waterproof, non porous toys without motors.
Mix ratio: About five tablespoons of unscented household bleach per gallon of water in a well ventilated area.
- Fully submerge the toy for about 10 minutes
- Rinse thoroughly with soap and plenty of water
- Let air dry completely
Wear gloves if you have sensitive skin and keep the bleach solution away from fabrics.
Dishwasher and Why It Is Rarely Necessary
Dishwashers can work for non mechanical silicone, glass, and steel toys. Place on the top rack with no soap, run a sanitize cycle, and wash separately from dishes for hygiene.
However, dishwashers may not kill all viruses or fungi, so boiling remains more effective. Most readers will find simple washing and occasional boiling a better option.
What Not To Do When Cleaning Sex Toys
Some cleaning habits can damage toys or irritate sensitive skin.
Avoid these cleaners:
- Undiluted household bleach directly on surfaces
- Ammonia or window cleaner
- Antibacterial wipes with harsh fragrances
- Hydrogen peroxide (causes discoloration)
- Alcohol sprays on TPE or silicone toys
Other mistakes to avoid:
- Abrasive scrubbing pads or rough sponges that scratch surfaces
- Soaking mechanical or battery powered toys
- Microwaving, baking, or using UV nail lamps as DIY sterilizers
If a toy is heavily worn, cracked, or permanently sticky, replace it rather than trying harsher important cleaning methods.

Drying and Storing Your Sex Toys the Right Way
Proper drying and storage protect both hygiene and toy lifespan.
- Pat dry with a clean lint free cloth
- Let toys sex toy air dry fully before storing, especially strokers and anything with internal sleeves
- Store sex toys separately in a sealable pouch, small box, or individual compartments
- Keep toys in a cool, dry, dark place away from sunlight and damp bathrooms
- Store cords and chargers untangled and away from sharp edges
Remember to store your silicone toys apart from each other because if they touch each other during storage they can chemically react and melt together. Try and store them in individual cases, like our Anti Bacterial Storage Toy Bag, to protect them from light and dust. This will extend your sex toys' lifespan. But please, avoid storing them in plastic bags, this will only trap moisture and lead to bacterial growth. We don't want any infections, do we?
How Often to Clean and When to Replace Your Toys
Cleaning frequency:
- Clean after every use
- Quick rinse before use if stored for a long time
- Deep clean regularly if toys are shared
Signs it is time to replace:
- Visible cracks or peeling coatings
- Cloudy spots in clear materials
- Rust or discoloration on metal
- Persistent odd smell even after cleaning
- Permanently sticky texture
Porous toys like soft strokers need replacement more often than non porous silicone or stainless steel. Schedule a simple “toy check” every few months, especially for toys bought two or more years ago.
Keeping It Safe and Sexy with Pink Pussycat
Clean toys mean better sensations, fewer infections, and longer toy life. Taking just a few minutes to properly wash your vibrators, dildos, strokers, and plugs protects your health and pleasure for years.
Pink Pussycat focuses on body safe materials like medical grade silicone and high quality finishes that make cleaning straightforward. If you are the only person using your toys, simple soap and water after each session is usually enough.
Ready to explore toys designed for easy care? Visit our online shop today to find your next body safe toy and check the cleaning tips on each product page before your first play session.




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